Getting in tune with your partner
"A house divided against itself cannot stand" - Abraham Lincoln
When we are bickering and fighting with our significant other, it is easy for things to spiral out of control. When a house is divided, the most common tendency is to blame each other. Often couples will come to counseling hoping to have their 'case' heard, and that the therapist will choose sides. But this rarely leads to a healthier relationship.
Instead the therapist's role is not to be a judge, but to be a dance instructor. At the beginning of your relationship the both of you were probably in sync. Somewhere along the way the trials of life wedged you apart. In therapy both partners are heard from, and we work together to find common ground.
Through this kind of intentional work we can get you dancing together again.
When we are bickering and fighting with our significant other, it is easy for things to spiral out of control. When a house is divided, the most common tendency is to blame each other. Often couples will come to counseling hoping to have their 'case' heard, and that the therapist will choose sides. But this rarely leads to a healthier relationship.
Instead the therapist's role is not to be a judge, but to be a dance instructor. At the beginning of your relationship the both of you were probably in sync. Somewhere along the way the trials of life wedged you apart. In therapy both partners are heard from, and we work together to find common ground.
Through this kind of intentional work we can get you dancing together again.