Couples Counseling
The No Change Relationship Cycle
This cycle continues when both partners are only willing to take half steps towards change. Whether that change is fully advocating for our needs or fully responding to an ask, when it is only done halfway, the cycle rolls on.
Getting in tune with your partner
When we are bickering and fighting with our significant other, it is easy for things to spiral out of control. When a house is divided, the most common tendency is to blame each other. Often couples will come to counseling hoping to have their 'case' heard, and that the therapist will choose sides. But this rarely leads to a healthier relationship.
Instead the therapist's role is not to be a judge, but to be a dance instructor. At the beginning of your relationship the both of you were probably in sync. Somewhere along the way life wedged you apart. In therapy both partners are heard from, and we work together to find common ground.
Personally I love couples counseling. There is a great energy to it. It's like therapy on steroids!
Through this kind of intentional work we can get you dancing together again.
Getting in tune with your partner
When we are bickering and fighting with our significant other, it is easy for things to spiral out of control. When a house is divided, the most common tendency is to blame each other. Often couples will come to counseling hoping to have their 'case' heard, and that the therapist will choose sides. But this rarely leads to a healthier relationship.
Instead the therapist's role is not to be a judge, but to be a dance instructor. At the beginning of your relationship the both of you were probably in sync. Somewhere along the way life wedged you apart. In therapy both partners are heard from, and we work together to find common ground.
Personally I love couples counseling. There is a great energy to it. It's like therapy on steroids!
Through this kind of intentional work we can get you dancing together again.
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